Life Renewed, Time And Again!

Sometimes we end up taking such decisions where no one is happy, not even your own self. But we thread. We thread the path, with so much tucked inside - for the fear of society, for the fear of missing out, for the fear of being different and being chided. And gradually so much more changes around you without your notice and life gets on auto-pilot mode with no one stopping down to think what the hell is this all about!

Why? Why do you have to do something which will not keep any involved party happy. Is this the whole idea of being born? To be like somebody else because somebody else will or will not conform with you.

A society is always behind your life with its prejudices, opinions, and judgements - and we run as far away as possible or suppress as deep as we can. Why?

Why do you have to do something and be someone who you are not? Who is going to live forever? Even the nagging aunty and the annoying uncle who are somebody else's parents will also die. These beings who are running around with a measuring scale all their lives do not even realise why they are doing whatever they are up to. That could be primarily because somebody else would have done the same to their younger selves. And the baton is passed on, just the ways and intensity changes.

And this ever churning cycle of "victims of the society" will continue to poison your minds and soul, with their directives!

Because someone somewhere couldn't see everything happy and easy and invented and infused the "shoulds", "musts", "have tos" into their lives to churn out some complication to an already 'complicated' life!

Break free. Break the pattern. Find your self. Do what makes you happy truly. Instead of becoming the older versions of the past victims.

How much fun life will be then!

So when someone asks "What have you done with all your life?" "Property, money, shares, bank balance, husband, kids etc etc"

I should be able to say, with a grin - the number of people I have connected with, the number of lives I have touched, the number of times I have made someone smile, the experiences I have had and shared, the number of times I was okay to cry, be angry, be upset and just be fine with it all.  Without the fear of being weighed down by forces that do not matter, with a head held high up and with a never fading smile in the heart!

Isn't life about all this? Isn't this the only purpose? Isn't this what it is all about?

P.S: Did someone say rat race? Are we rats?