Who Chose The Reason??
Been quite a long time, since I sat down to write. The reasons flutter between these two options, either my thoughts were skewed or I was occupied with too many things. Whatever the case may be, we always have a reason like I do. That makes me a normal person like anyone of you out there! Lol!
A reason not to do something, not to go somewhere or not to think as well!! Reasons.. reasons.. reasons..
At times, you do not want to give up on something, although upon giving up, life works in your favour. But you have a reason not to do so, wonder why and you continue to struggle and strain yourselves!! Sometimes, you do not want to do anything, like my current status (for eg.), where I want to free myself of all the unwanted stress that I've successfully accumulated over years, now that's my reason. You back off from a scheduled plan or outing, now, you claim you have an important work to attend to, all of a sudden. That stands out as your reason to give it a miss!
Few other times, we are late to work because we get stuck amongst piles of traffic. We miss out on attending a wedding since it was raining!! The food didn't taste good because the cook had not prepared it well enough!! It seems like a waste of time and money because some movie was disastrous!
At the end of the day, we just happen to choose from the best or worst of the options that is available to us and present it in the best possible way for others to accept it, no matter what. They don't have a choice but you do!! The choice that we make at any given situation transforms itself to a reason when it hits the world. But, but, sometimes we blame the world for the choices thrown at us, little do we realize that those are the choices that we chose. We chose not to go against the choices that came our way or not to choose the best.
A great deal of choice is made based on only one fact. And that would be based on whatever suits US - each one of us, whatever satisfies our conscience, whatever our beloved gut says and btw, the gut is a very mean fellow, sometimes!
I, personally, find a very faint difference between a choice made and a reason given. Its all what we choose from an array of choices. Never ever you'll be left with a "no choice". So absurd, isn't?? Yet we blame and sulk!!
The world doesn't end for any one of us, we choose to end things for ourselves!! Live up, listen to your heart, make the best choices and let them not seem like a reason, a lame one at it, atleast !!! :) :)
A reason not to do something, not to go somewhere or not to think as well!! Reasons.. reasons.. reasons..
At times, you do not want to give up on something, although upon giving up, life works in your favour. But you have a reason not to do so, wonder why and you continue to struggle and strain yourselves!! Sometimes, you do not want to do anything, like my current status (for eg.), where I want to free myself of all the unwanted stress that I've successfully accumulated over years, now that's my reason. You back off from a scheduled plan or outing, now, you claim you have an important work to attend to, all of a sudden. That stands out as your reason to give it a miss!
Few other times, we are late to work because we get stuck amongst piles of traffic. We miss out on attending a wedding since it was raining!! The food didn't taste good because the cook had not prepared it well enough!! It seems like a waste of time and money because some movie was disastrous!
At the end of the day, we just happen to choose from the best or worst of the options that is available to us and present it in the best possible way for others to accept it, no matter what. They don't have a choice but you do!! The choice that we make at any given situation transforms itself to a reason when it hits the world. But, but, sometimes we blame the world for the choices thrown at us, little do we realize that those are the choices that we chose. We chose not to go against the choices that came our way or not to choose the best.
A great deal of choice is made based on only one fact. And that would be based on whatever suits US - each one of us, whatever satisfies our conscience, whatever our beloved gut says and btw, the gut is a very mean fellow, sometimes!
I, personally, find a very faint difference between a choice made and a reason given. Its all what we choose from an array of choices. Never ever you'll be left with a "no choice". So absurd, isn't?? Yet we blame and sulk!!
The world doesn't end for any one of us, we choose to end things for ourselves!! Live up, listen to your heart, make the best choices and let them not seem like a reason, a lame one at it, atleast !!! :) :)
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